Finding a True Friend December 16, 2009

I am responding to lauraw877’s blog post real or fake…you tell me.
I am responding to Laura’s blog because I completely agree with her. It is so hard to find a true friend today. I have a very tight knit group of about six girls that I have been friends with forever. I know that I will always have these friends and they are true and honest to me. I must admit it is very difficult to find a sincere girl friend. I have been around plenty of girls who are nice to your face, and the minute you turn your back they cannot wait to say horrible things about you. What is the point? Why do girls feel the need to talk trash about other girls? I believe that we express our insecurities by talking about others. Somehow it makes girls feel better about themselves to talk about others. I do not believe I am a fake person; I try to be nice to everyone unless they have done something mean to me. I think it is pointless to pretend to like someone when you really do not. Girls today need to stop being fake. Everyone is insecure in some way or another, but when you begin to take those insecurities out on someone else that is when problems can arise. Give everyone at least one shot before you start to talk bad about them. Learn how to control your insecurities, rather than take them out on someone else.

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